Adam’s Curse
In my struggle to meet the demands of my now long forgotten, but now remembered, resolutions of the New Year I read Adam’s Curse by W.B. Yeats last night. Some of the stanza’s I have faint memories of. If I can dare to do so I’d say that this poem summarizes nicely what I tell my children; doing things that are worthwhile take serious time and effort. Yeats, I think, agrees. Poetry, beauty and love all take work. I should correct myself here. If you are successful, the recipient of your effort should scarcely notice the labor. This is one of the signs of its quality according to Yeats; the quality of seeming like “a moment’s thought”.
Sadly, and I get this sense near the end, we’ve lost the motivation to pursue this sort of quality. Or we invent new ways that short-circuit some of that time and effort. Maybe when we do this, we lose some of the personal benefits of this exertion?
We sat together at one summer’s end,
That beautiful mild woman, your close friend,
And you and I, and talked of poetry.
I said, “A line will take us hours maybe;
Yet if it does not seem a moment’s thought,
Our stitching and unstitching has been naught.
Better go down upon your marrow-bones
And scrub a kitchen pavement, or break stones
Like an old pauper, in all kinds of weather;
For to articulate sweet sounds together
Is to work harder than all these, and yet
Be thought an idler by the noisy set
Of bankers, schoolmasters, and clergymen
The martyrs call the world.”And thereupon
That beautiful mild woman for whose sake
There’s many a one shall find out all heartache
On finding that her voice is sweet and low
Replied, “To be born woman is to know –
Although they do not talk of it at school –
That we must labour to be beautiful.”
I said, “It’s certain there is no fine thing
Since Adam’s fall but needs much labouring.
There have been lovers who thought love should be
So much compounded of high courtesy
That they would sigh and quote with learned looks
precedents out of beautiful old books;
Yet now it seems an idle trade enough.”We sat grown quiet at the name of love;
We saw the last embers of daylight die,
And in the trembling blue-green of the sky
A moon, worn as if it had been a shell
Washed by time’s waters as they rose and fell
About the stars and broke in days and years.
I had a thought for no one’s but your ears:
That you were beautiful, and that I strove
To love you in the old high way of love;
That it had all seemed happy, and yet we’d grown
As weary-hearted as that hollow moon.